Why Don't I have A Crush?

Look around and I see every one having a crush on someone. And it seems to be one of the very common questions your friends ask you,not just once but repeatedly. They always have one,which can be as long as years and as fresh as today.

Before going any further,its better if we first define the term crush. Its seems like that you have a feeling of a extreme liking for somone of opposite sex. ( We talk about straights all through the article). This feeling can be some emotional attraction or bonding,it can be sexual attraction, or may be even love! (We exclude cases where people have crushes every day and on like every hot chic).
So how does it feel and what you wanna do when you have a crush on someone? I guess it feels great and one wants to talk to that chick or may be go out with her. May be you think about her a lot.



Talking generally, I hope we all would be satisfaid with this and agree with it.
But the million dollar question right now s why don't I have a crush on some girl. I see a chic, check her out if shes hot,may be keep looking at her for a long time. In some cases I may go and try to talk to her. Next morning probably wont even remember her. I would feel things about her discussed above may be ,but it wouldnt be on my mind for any considerable time. So I move on with every such chic I could have had a crush on.

So is something wrong?

Is it because I know that I wont take the pains to get her. You need to work a little to get any chic,they like guys trying to pick them and doing some efforts for it. I wouldnt do enough of it and because I get sick of it pretty soon.
Or have the right chic not come to my life? Does that mean one day I would see one chic and say " hell man,I Have a crush on this chic..I want her!"
Since then it seems I would have to go on like this..without having any crushes!;)

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

No crushes?
No love?

man that is cool believe me!
Love sucks!

Anonymous said...

I have crushes new everyday...and i forget them the next morning...dont worry ull have some soon..and nothing is wrong with u.

moonlight said...

First of all get your fundas right.the term'chick"= slang : GIRL, WOMAN(as per Webster).
So how do you think you will ever be able to have a crush if you view girls/women otherwise?

StandbyMind said...

Well Well Well...We have a chic..sorry A GIRL/WOMAN here who isnt happy with my use of the word!

Forgive me Moonlight..;)..lol

Virus© said...

First of all "chick" ain't no derogatory term. I consider it as a perfectly fine word to use.
And for me that's what crushes mean, check out the chick, whistle if she's got curves at the right places with accurate proportion and forget her.


And yeah one shouldn't mistake love with crush.


Cheers,
ViRuS©

lost prophet said...

u know....crush is momentary! u r supposed to forget them sooner or later....and ..love isnt true!

and who cares if u r in love or not....life goes on....

u ll grow out of it! look up to see the brightly lit sky! thts falling in love again...

utkarsh said...

Crushes are healthy .. but you have to remember that they are crushes ..and NOT do anything about it till the end of days.
There is no point in trying to make that extra effort to get the girl because eventually when you do .. you will either get her .. or you won't .. if you don't .. well and good .. if you do .. eventually she will dump you .. or you will dump her .. why do you want to put yourself through all that .. ??
Just enjoy being single .. Which I hope you already are .. :)

Ruchika said...

Crushes are cute, but like others have said too.. they are momentary.. like you smile when you see or think of the person, and thats it.. its not love.. its just some sort of an attraction.. not meaningless, but not earth-shattering love either! And if you don't have one, its not like there is something wrong.. life is enjoyable anyways!

StandbyMind said...

First of all Thanx VirUs! ;)I love d word too...(Sorry Moonllight again..lol)

N thanx all...Yeah lifes enjoyable...N im gonna really put one post when I get a REAl crush on a CHIC...;)

manisha said...

its gud!!

havin crushes..n nt getin thm is awful...

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Nasim said...

I used to have a crush on a guy, and now it's gone...
Is something wrong with me?

Standbymind said...

@Nasim
I dont think so..I think its cool

Unkown said...

I agree with the first one! Having a crush or liking someone does suck because what's the point of liking them if they don't like you? And like what a comment said, having a crush isn't love, it's just some sort of abnormal attraction. I don't know what you people out there who have a crush are thinking, but you'd better stop now before you embarass yourself! And as you can tell, I'm phsyco idiotic over this topic because I haven't had a crush on any "chick" for THREE years! Beat that suckers! Let's see who can beat me!

j k said...

ikr about the first one. crushes make ur life complex and sometimes its just too much to take. i have a crush on someone and i was crushed when i heard he likes on of my bffs. so ya be glad!

j k said...

ikr about the first one. crushes make ur life complex and sometimes its just too much to take. i have a crush on someone and i was crushed when i heard he likes on of my bffs. so ya be glad!